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Because it really does take a village to raise a child.

Critics of the former Liberal government's program have attempted to turn the debate into a question of whether parents or paid professionals are better at raising children, but this gross oversimplification of the issues misses the mark and ill-serves Canadians.

What they don't understand, or choose to ignore, is that all families — urban or rural, single or double income, one parent or two, day job or shift work — can benefit from the ready availability of a broad range of quality care and early learning services.

Prenatal classes, parent-child drop-in centres, licensed child care, early learning activities, after-school programs.

These services can make parents' lives easier, and ensure that they can make the choices that are right for their families, while ensuring the best possible start in life for their children.But you can't choose what doesn't exist, and too few of these services are available to meet the needs of those who want them.

And when they are available, the cost is often prohibitive.

Stephen Harper is offering parents $100 a month.

But the cost of full-time child care can reach $...

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Their mother, Nancy, tries to reduce her kids' stress levels during test time by giving them time to relax after school.

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Breathe deeply, quietly and naturally, four to five seconds on the in-breath and four to five seconds on the out-breath, in the days leading up to the test, right before and during the test.Address the what-if questions.

Instead of wrestling with negative what-if questions, try posing positive what-if questions, such as: "What if I can remember more than I think I can?

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Remember something that makes you feel good, and hold that feeling for at least 10 seconds.Get enough sleep.

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A lecture series at McGill this month taught some life skills that employees fresh out of university could use.

Backpack to Briefcase, organized by the Alumni Association, wraps up this week.

Workshops held throughout March dealt with all aspects of the job search, from how to find employment to what to wear.

"We felt it was offering students something really tangible that they could benefit from that they wouldn't get exposed to in their classes," said Shannon Consedine, alumni services associate for student programs.

About 350 students signed up, with half of participants attending two or more sessions.

They chose from 18 workshops.

A similar number of students took part last year in the same number of workshops, said Consedine, but whereas the first annual Backpack to Briefcase occurred over a weekend, it was changed into a month-long series to be more convenient.She said the event best received was the negotiating session, while the workshop with the best attendance was on dining etiquette.

All events were free except dining etiquette, which cost $15 to cover part of the cost of the meal at the Faculty Club.

Dining etiquette instructor Mayme Vineberg said that 70 per cent of business discussions occur while out to lunch or dinner."Don't forget - this meal is not about food," she said.

In addition, Vineberg recommended that guests follow the host's lead, be discreet and use common sense.

"The only time you cut everything at once is when you're feeding a toddler,...